Your Future Is Everywhere - If You Want It!
Note: This post is written by Anders Tryka of Powerful Attraction, you can read more about Anders here.
Let’s assume for a second that you have a few empowering mindsets and beliefs about your abilities with women. I’m glad that you are accepting this to be true, as this means you are willing to explore the possibilities out there.
Imagine yourself in a local super market, and the future “Mrs You” comes around the corner. What do you do now?
I know that you’re thinking: “Well, I could stop her, but…” – But, what? I believe Wayne Gretzky once said: “You’ll miss all the shots you don’t take.” You may feel this to be an awkward situation. Most guys will tend to smile, move on, and kick themselves in the rear as they come up with “If only I would have chosen to say something, It would be […]” – you think aliens do that?
I mean, most people imagine themselves meeting their future partners in a bar or at a private party with your social circle, not in the super market. But do aliens know these “rules?”
The fact of the matter is though that you have the possibility to take that shot in the super market, or on the street, just as you have it at a private party. Some of us prefer the comfort of the social circle, and some prefer going outside of it, to a bar or a club. No choice is wrong here. What matters is: Understanding your previous choices, and then decide if you want to change your approach.
So, let me help you understand the mechanisms behind the choices you have made so far.
How many of your friends have met their girlfriend or ex-girlfriend in a super market or as she came walking down the street? My bet is: Less than 5 %.
When we approach people cold on the street, there have been no approval mechanisms, so you never know if the person you are talking to is a total nutcase or a psycho stalker, or if he or she is a really cool person. So, most of us just keep walking as a reflection of this.
Things are mixed up a little when we are at a bar or club. Typically, we bring our friends, our own little social circle. So, in any given bar you will find 10, 20, 40 or more social circles passively or actively engaging one another. All people there live up to certain minimum standards. We are approved by the doorman, and we’re not too drunk to be in the place – well, granted, some people are now and then, but they’re quickly thrown out, right?
If I were to throw in a rough estimate of how many of your friends meet girls this way, I would have to say: Around 35 %.
The remaining 60 % of your friends will have met their partner at private parties with friends and business relations. Most of us do this, play it safe because everyone we meet at these gatherings are pre-approved in one way or the other. We all know someone who knows someone else, who made the rules. We are all part of the same value system. So, naturally, some barriers are easily crossed if, at all, in existence.
Here’s what it all comes down to: If you want to be open to the existence of UFO’s, you need to fully understand this concept. Do you want to continue playing it safe like 95 % of your friends, or do you want to join the 5 % club that experiences so much more? Take a walk on the wild side, and look for the UFO’s!
